by Shaunti Feldhahn | Jul 14, 2017 | Conflict
by Shaunti Feldhahn For both men and women, we often completely forget (or brush off altogether) the fact that we are very different, and thus have very different insecurities. Different doubts, worries, needs, and desires. Which means: things that wouldn’t bother us...
by Guest Writer | Jul 7, 2017 | Conflict
by Crystal Chiang The audience was on their feet. There was celebration. Trumpets. Confetti. The crowd went wild. Okay, none of that happened. But thats how it felt the first time my husband and I stepped out of an IKEA store and realized that we had made it through...
by Marriage 365 | Jun 30, 2017 | Conflict, Sex & Dating
by Casey and Meygan Caston Respect is one of those concepts we all hear often, but it seems fewer understand how it works and its impact in marriage. Here’s an all too common story from our marriage that will give you a better grasp on respect. Casey often goes into...
by Guest Writer | Jun 23, 2017 | Conflict
by Monica Humpal While leading a study recently by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, I had a huge “aha” moment. Well, not really that huge because I’ve known this was not a good way of communicating for quite a while, but oh boy does it keep creeping in...
by Shaunti Feldhahn | Jun 2, 2017 | Conflict
by Shaunti Feldhahn Dear Shaunti, I’m about to pull my very tired hair out. My wife and I know we shouldn’t go to bed angry, but our arguments only get worse the later they go. I love my wife, but I truly can’t think straight after 11pm. Last night, I got so angry I...
by Shaunti Feldhahn | Apr 28, 2017 | Conflict, For Wives
by Shaunti Feldhahn Dear Shaunti: My husband is an involved dad, a leader at our church, the type of guy people look to for advice, and he goes over and above his requirements on the job. But he is often grumpy and withdrawn at home. He gets upset at the littlest...