Shaunti Feldhahn

Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn are Harvard-trained social researchers and best-selling authors. Their books, including For Women Only, For Men Only, and The Kindness Challenge , have sold more 3 million copies around the world. Check out their new online courses at SurprisingHope.com. The Feldhahns live in Atlanta with their two kids and two cats who think they are dogs.

The Sneaky Trap That Will Kill Your Marriage

by Shaunti Feldhahn | Jul 14, 2017 | Conflict

by Shaunti Feldhahn For both men and women, we often completely forget (or brush off altogether) the fact that we are very different, and thus have very different insecurities. Different doubts, worries, needs, and desires. Which means: things that wouldn’t bother us...

Sleep On It

by Shaunti Feldhahn | Jun 2, 2017 | Conflict

by Shaunti Feldhahn Dear Shaunti, I’m about to pull my very tired hair out. My wife and I know we shouldn’t go to bed angry, but our arguments only get worse the later they go. I love my wife, but I truly can’t think straight after 11pm. Last night, I got so angry I...

Married to a Grumpy Guy?

by Shaunti Feldhahn | Apr 28, 2017 | Conflict, For Wives

by Shaunti Feldhahn Dear Shaunti: My husband is an involved dad, a leader at our church, the type of guy people look to for advice, and he goes over and above his requirements on the job. But he is often grumpy and withdrawn at home. He gets upset at the littlest...