Jeff and Alyssa Bethke

Jeff and Alyssa write books, make videos, and create stuff online. It’s usually about Jesus, relationships, faith, or family (and sometimes coffee, because of course right?). Sometimes we do stuff individually, and sometimes we do stuff together.

Porn, Sex, and the Christian

by Jeff and Alyssa Bethke | Sep 24, 2018 | Sex & Dating, Technology

The Stats More than ever, there is a deep need for sexual restoration, healing, and change. The statistics are alarming. “sex” and “porn” are among the top 5 search terms for kids under the age of 18. 35% of all internet downloads are pornographic. Every second...

Why Needing to Win is Killing Your Relationship

by Jeff and Alyssa Bethke | Feb 19, 2018 | Conflict

I Wanted to Be a Lawyer From the earliest I could remember, I wanted to be a lawyer. Strange, right? Most kids want to be an astronaut or fireman. But I was like ‘nah,’ I want to do clerical work and fill out legal briefings all day. I had a natural...

The Ultimate Enemy of Intimacy

by Jeff and Alyssa Bethke | Jan 15, 2018 | Communication, For Husbands, Sex & Dating

When I was thirteen years old, I was riding my bike around the neighborhood when I saw in an alley some pieces of paper that caught my eye. I stopped my bike and bent down to pick up what turned out to be a magazine. As I took a closer look, I had my first view of one...